Counselling in South East London
The beginning of therapy makes you feel nervous, perhaps unsure where to start from; revisiting those traumatic memories often embedded in the subconscious can prevent you from moving forward. The experience of a relationship with a Narcissist has left you feeling doubting your own sanity. Narcissists are renowned to be charismatic, charming, seductive, only when the love bombing phase is over a new chapter will be unfolding: the drama, the lies, the gaslighting, the abusive behaviour is in full swing!
HOW CAN COUNSELLING HELP YOU?
Counselling promote a connection with your inner self, counselling is a private outlet in which to talk of difficulties emerging from family dynamics, interpersonal trauma, loss. I can’t single-handedly change your thoughts and feelings, I can guide you towards how to do those things, but the actual doing — that’s all you. I as your therapist am to provide you with a safe space to explore changes and make progressive steps to achieve your aims.
Couples should be proud for the effort they make to help them how to accept differences, to share their emotional needs, to build strength and a better insight into their lives. Pre marital counselling enables you to navigate your expectations, to negotiate a satisfactory plan for your future, to feel confident in taking your relationship one step further. The focus of my work with couples is about the dynamics playing in your rapport, attachment styles, and to improve the communication a predominant to maintain quality in the relationship with your partner free from gender based - role display.
Pre Marital Counselling
Self - Harm
Anger and Rage
Anger is the result of hidden feeling of shame or fear, often stemming from Trauma. Unexpressed anger plays a part in what you are experiencing, if not explored it can prevent you to re connect with yourself, and those close to you. Trauma and Abuse plunges the individual into a spiral of guilt, low self esteem, depression to name a few aspects.
Memories of past trauma triggers somatic responses, those physical symptoms can affect your daily life leaving you to feel distressed and edgy. Counselling support your self care plan to gain self awareness.
My name is Monika Bassani a dedicated, experienced Integrative Counsellor / Psychotherapist. My career started in 2012, my approach includes Psychodynamic, Person Centred, Solution Focused Therapy and Emotional Focus Therapy.
You as my client will profit from a congruent and confidential therapy service where you are acknowledged, accepted, and listened to with respect and value.
I welcome all individuals irrespective of gender, body size, creed, religion, hair colour, abilities, sexuality, and political values.
Your first session will give you the opportunity to share what worries you, to ask questions, to identify your needs and to discover how I work. I also provide personal therapy to Trainee Counselors.
Appointments are available day time and evenings. Payment is required to be made in advance to confirm and secure your booking. Please be advised that 48 hours' notice is required for cancellations. Please note in line with Covid-19 policies all sessions are held via Zoom platform only, until further notice.
Free Parking bay available, please there are stairs at this location it might not be suitable if you have mobility issues.
By using the form below, by email, or by phone you can make an appointment at your convenience.